Most of us drive automobiles. It’s one of most engery consuming jobs out there. This demands you attention, focus, split-seconds decisions. At the same time, the vehicle’s engines is working equally hard. Metal is used to create engine. Metal is good conductor of heat.

Over time, you will feel that you are doing all the hard job, yet it’s engine that needs time to cool down. This is annoying most of the times.

In relationship, your partner and you play the role of driver and engine parallely in each other’s life.

The art of driving is exhausting, and being engine is equally exhausting. I can safely say, in such cases, you are consuming double the energy.

You are exhausted. You will need rest. You will need space.

Your partner wants space from you because they want to recharge or cool down for you.

Asking for space is a good sign. This shows they are thinking about you and relationship for long term. Afterall if you’re to drive the car just for few rides, would you care for it?

Use this time, away from your partner to relax and recharge. Let your partner do the same.

At the same, please remember, every car is designed engineered differently. The metal composition varies and so the time taken to cool down varies.