Relationship Scientifically

Every relationship have its entropy Coefficient defined. With time it either tends towards infinity or zero.

When Entropy Coefficient runs parallel to the time axis or it’s perpendicular to time axis.

The relationship cease to exist.

There is concept of eletron-eletron repulsion. When two eletrons are too close, they repel each other. This results from electrostatic force.

Same way, your partner and you will have fights and/or arguments because you both are too close. Close enough to invade each others me space.

This happens because there is stress, another word for force, in the situation.

Either you both will repel enough to get out of me space or the me space will srink establishing new borders.

Most of us drive automobiles. It’s one of most engery consuming jobs out there. This demands you attention, focus, split-seconds decisions. At the same time, the vehicle’s engines is working equally hard. Metal is used to create engine. Metal is good conductor of heat.

Over time, you will feel that you are doing all the hard job, yet it’s engine that needs time to cool down. This is annoying most of the times.

Our eyes have vision boundaries. This is also known as the field of vision. It’s about 200 degrees horizontally and about 135 degrees vertically. This field of vision is calculated with the eye not moved.

As most of us are aware, a complete circle is 360 degrees.

One can conclude that we have limited vision. In other words, we have a boundary, and it’s safe to assume that we will not have visibility into all aspects of one’s life.

First law of motion states that an object in motion stays in motion unless acted upon by an external force. The same principle applies to relationships. A relationship that maintains consistent forward movement tends to continue thriving, while one at rest tends to stay stagnant.

The Initial Push

Starting a relationship requires significant energy. Like pushing a heavy object from a standstill, the beginning demands effort, courage, and intentionality. You initiate conversations. You plan dates. You invest time learning about each other. This initial push creates momentum.

A pendulum swings from one extreme to another before eventually settling at its center point. Pull it far to one side, release it, and it swings with equal force to the opposite side. Only after multiple swings, with decreasing amplitude, does it find rest at equilibrium. Relationships follow this same pattern after conflict.

The Initial Swing

When a conflict occurs, the relationship is pulled to one extreme. Perhaps there’s distance, anger, or hurt. One partner withdraws. Communication stops.

Atoms form different types of bonds based on their electron configurations and needs. Some share electrons equally. Some transfer electrons completely. Some form temporary attractions. Relationships follow similar patterns. Understanding the chemistry of bonding reveals much about how people connect.

Ionic Bonds: The Give and Take Dynamic

In ionic bonding, one atom gives up electrons while another accepts them. The result is two charged particles held together by opposite attractions. This creates a strong but rigid structure.

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter associated with reward, motivation, and pleasure. When you encounter something novel and exciting, your brain releases dopamine, creating that electric feeling of anticipation and joy. New relationships trigger massive dopamine releases. But like all chemical systems, this cannot last forever. The curve must decline.

The Initial Spike

In the early days of a relationship, everything is new. Every text message is a surprise. Every date reveals unknown information. Every physical touch carries novelty. Your brain interprets all of this as reward-worthy, and dopamine floods your system.

Every object has a natural frequency at which it vibrates most efficiently. When an external force matches this natural frequency, resonance occurs. The object absorbs energy easily and vibrations amplify. Force it to vibrate at a different frequency, and it resists, wasting energy. Relationships have natural frequencies too.

The Natural Rhythm

Some couples thrive on daily deep conversations. Others need only weekly check-ins to feel connected. Some require constant physical proximity. Others maintain intimacy through occasional quality time. This is your relationship’s natural frequency—the rhythm at which connection flows with minimum resistance.

Every object has a natural frequency at which it vibrates most efficiently. When an external force matches this natural frequency, resonance occurs. The object absorbs energy easily and vibrations amplify. Force it to vibrate at a different frequency, and it resists, wasting energy. Relationships have natural frequencies too.

The Natural Rhythm

Some couples thrive on daily deep conversations. Others need only weekly check-ins to feel connected. Some require constant physical proximity. Others maintain intimacy through occasional quality time. This is your relationship’s natural frequency—the rhythm at which connection flows with minimum resistance.

Gravity is an invisible force that pulls objects toward each other. Its strength depends on mass and distance. Large objects create strong gravitational fields that trap smaller objects in orbit. Some orbits are stable. Others spiral inward toward collision or outward toward escape. Emotional dependency works the same way.

The Gravitational Field

Every person creates an emotional gravitational field. Some people have massive emotional presence—they draw others in strongly. Others have lighter presence—their pull is gentler. When two people form a relationship, they create a binary system where both gravitational fields interact.

When materials are heated, they expand. The molecules gain kinetic energy and spread out, requiring more space. This is thermal expansion. When the material cools, it contracts back to its original size. The expansion is temporary and necessary—it prevents structural damage from heat stress. Relationships expand and contract the same way under stress.

The Heat Source

Stress is the heat source in relationships. Work pressure. Family obligations. Health crises. Financial strain. Personal struggles. When stress enters the system, it raises the temperature. Both partners absorb this thermal energy, and the relationship begins to expand.