Relationship Scientifically

Where Science Meets the Heart

Entropy

Every relationship have its entropy Coefficient defined. With time it either tends towards infinity or zero.

When Entropy Coefficient runs parallel to the time axis or it’s perpendicular to time axis.

The relationship cease to exist.

Fights or Arguments

There is concept of eletron-eletron repulsion. When two eletrons are too close, they repel each other. This results from electrostatic force.

Same way, your partner and you will have fights and/or arguments because you both are too close. Close enough to invade each others me space.

This happens because there is stress, another word for force, in the situation.

Either you both will repel enough to get out of me space or the me space will srink establishing new borders.

Me Space

Most of us drive automobiles. It’s one of most engery consuming jobs out there. This demands you attention, focus, split-seconds decisions. At the same time, the vehicle’s engines is working equally hard. Metal is used to create engine. Metal is good conductor of heat.

Over time, you will feel that you are doing all the hard job, yet it’s engine that needs time to cool down. This is annoying most of the times.

Boundaries

Our eyes have vision boundaries. This is also known as the field of vision. It’s about 200 degrees horizontally and about 135 degrees vertically. This field of vision is calculated with the eye not moved.

As most of us are aware, a complete circle is 360 degrees.

One can conclude that we have limited vision. In other words, we have a boundary, and it’s safe to assume that we will not have visibility into all aspects of one’s life.

The Momentum Principle: Why Relationships in Motion Stay in Motion

First law of motion states that an object in motion stays in motion unless acted upon by an external force. The same principle applies to relationships. A relationship that maintains consistent forward movement tends to continue thriving, while one at rest tends to stay stagnant.

The Initial Push

Starting a relationship requires significant energy. Like pushing a heavy object from a standstill, the beginning demands effort, courage, and intentionality. You initiate conversations. You plan dates. You invest time learning about each other. This initial push creates momentum.

The Pendulum Effect: Finding Balance After Relationship Conflict

A pendulum swings from one extreme to another before eventually settling at its center point. Pull it far to one side, release it, and it swings with equal force to the opposite side. Only after multiple swings, with decreasing amplitude, does it find rest at equilibrium. Relationships follow this same pattern after conflict.

The Initial Swing

When a conflict occurs, the relationship is pulled to one extreme. Perhaps there’s distance, anger, or hurt. One partner withdraws. Communication stops.